Friday, July 25, 2008

Worst Mom Ever

Sam and I have just had a very traumatic experience.

I was cleaning the kitchen cupboards and heard a sort of wearing, grinding noise from the living room. I ignored it as Sam never, ever does anything wrong. When I did wander out to see what he was up to, I found this:


Sam decided the best place to color (with a red crayon) was on the textured, impossible-to-clean living room walls. I wasn't really upset, as coloring on the walls is a requirement for toddlers. Still, I turned to Sam and said, "We don't color on the walls! That is naughty." Remember how I said Sam never does anything wrong? That makes this the first time I said something like that to him. That brought on this:

Picture of heartbroken Sam has been removed. It was just too sad!

Seriously. I felt like the worst mom in the world. But what should I have done? Told him to color away? I said over and over that I wasn't mad at him, we just don't color on walls. He was inconsolable.


Heartbroken picture 2 has also been deleted.


He was STILL crying when I had him stand next to the wall to show how big his picture was. These pictures just about break my heart. The worst part? I've been teaching him how to draw circles. He drew some pretty awesome circles!

He is a helper at heart, and all the tears stopped when I said he could help clean it. (His nose was still running, though.)

I got out the Magic Eraser and all traces of crayon are gone. Sam is happily playing.

So why do I still feel so terrible?

9 comments:

Grandma Wilson said...

How can he look so cute, even when he's so sad? Sam is the best toddler ever and you feel terrible because you're the best Mom ever! I think you're going to have to bring the easel up from the basement.

Grandma Wilson said...

The ARE pretty awesome circles!

Emilie said...

I thought the same thing about the easel. I think he'll be pretty impressed with it...but I can also see him refusing to use it, thinking it is a wall.

Aiden and Grant's Mommy said...

That teared me up and made me laugh all at the same time. Poor Sam....he was so proud of the circles! (They really are good!)

You are a GREAT mom! Especially if you can get your kid to never do anything wrong....scheese!

~Steph said...

The kid's got talent! Too cute!!

Sara H. said...

I hope when I walk in on Oliver coloring on the walls, I handle it as well as you did. You're amazing.

Carrie Cole said...

Aren't Magic Erasers the best?!? Love. them.

Anonymous said...

Oh my goodness Em! I was giggling and then saw the only remaining picture of Sam and I got a lump in my throat!! He is a great kid and you are a wondeful mama! I can't wait for the day I call you after I yell at Jack the first time. :)

Anonymous said...

Sam is such a sweet kiddo, and you've raised him that way! He looks like a budding artist as well!